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Married to Your Job? Time for Some Marriage Counseling

February 5, 2020 Mark Hammerstrom

I continue to be amazed by the sheer volume of reports, studies and research that focus on stress and the related health effects excessive stress can cause.  In particular the stress our jobs can cause us and what to do about it.

Do you ever feel married to your job?  I know at times in my career I have.  In fact, at one point I had to make a choice of staying in my career path or sacrificing my family life.  To me there was no choice: hands down I chose my family.

That is not right for everyone, however, and to be straight about it my decision caused a whole different kind of stress, along with some very significant adjustments to a new path.  Yet I have never looked back and that decision made all the difference.

Don’t get me wrong, hard work is not a bad thing. And some level of stress is actually a good thing. The fulfillment we feel being part of a team that successfully develops and grows an enterprise is one of the best feelings ever.

Yet where is that line between working hard and becoming a ‘workaholic’?  What can we do about it when it gets to be too much?

I found some answers in an article published by the Harvard Business Review, “How Being a Workaholic Differs from Working Long Hours — and Why That Matters for Your Health” by Lieke ten Brummelhuis and Nancy P. Rothbard (read it here).

First, what defines a workaholic?  “The term ‘workaholic’ was coined in 1971 by the psychologist Wayne E. Oates, who referred to ‘an uncontrollable need to work incessantly’ as an addiction. Workaholics are characterized by having an inner compulsive drive to work hard, thinking about work constantly, and feeling guilty and restless when they are not working.”

Do hard work and workaholism go hand in hand?  “Workaholism often goes hand in hand with working long hours, but the two are distinct: it’s possible to work long hours without being obsessed with work, and it is possible to be obsessed with work but only work 35 hours a week or less.”

Their research went on to show that workaholics experienced a whole array of significant, sometimes severe, physical and mental health problems. “We found that work hours were not related to any health issues, while workaholism was.”

“Specifically, employees who worked long hours (typically more than 40 hours a week), but who did not obsess about work, …reported fewer health complaints than employees who demonstrated workaholism. We found that workaholics, whether or not they worked long hours, reported more health complaints and had increased risk for metabolic syndrome; they also reported a higher need for recovery, more sleep problems, more cynicism, more emotional exhaustion, and more depressive feelings than employees who merely worked long hours but did not have workaholic tendencies.”

Not fun being a workaholic.  And it can be very difficult to change that behavior, but it can be changed.

Some tips:

  • “[A]cknowledge when a relationship to work is unhealthy — when it feels out of control and is undermining outside relationships.” In other words, the first step is to acknowledge one has a problem and become willing to take steps to fix it.

 

  • “[R]egain control over your work behavior. One way to do this is by setting clear rules for how many hours you will work each day.” Basically, develop good habits to know when to shut off work and then engage in activities completely detached from work.  For example, spending time with family, friends, reading.  Anything unrelated to your work.

 

  • Take time to “…reflect on the reasons why you work excessively and compulsively. We found a striking difference in work motivation between engaged and non-engaged workaholics. Whereas engaged workaholics worked because they enjoyed their work or found their work meaningful (these are intrinsic motivators), non-engaged workaholics were more likely to work for extrinsic motivators such as money and status. Intrinsic motivation is associated with more optimism, effort, and persistence, whereas extrinsic motivation often instigates anxiety and undermines persistence, making failure more likely.” So, liking what you do can help the situation.

 

  • Finally, one point I would add is that self-medicating to treat workaholism is not a good choice. It may feel good in the short term to decompress after a hard day by using alcohol or pills, but be real about the reasons you do this.  The regularity of medicating the problem can often only make it worse, like adding gasoline to a fire.

 

So, you may ask why a debt collection agency would publish a blog on workplace stress and workaholism?  Well, the fact is that this is a systemic and endemic problem in our work culture throughout the country.  We do our best to help our own staff members stay on the healthy side of the work load.  That helps them, but also you, our valued clients, as we always endeavor to provide the best possible service we can.  Of course, if by passing this information along to you, it may help you or someone else you are close to, then even better.

A. Alliance Collection Agency, Inc. is a full service, licensed accounts receivable management and debt collection agency providing highly effective, customized one on one management and recovery solutions for our business partners.  Founded in northern Illinois in 2005, we have been proudly improving the bottom-line on behalf of our business partners in and around Chicagoland for over 15 years.

 

 

Tags: effects of stress, Married to your work, workaholic |

“What, me worry?” The Timeless Wisdom of Alfred E. Neuman

January 8, 2020 Mark Hammerstrom

I have previously confessed in this blog that I am a man ‘of a certain age.’  So, this should not be a surprise that once again I dig deep into the past to resurrect some timeless wisdom from my youth.  This time from no less a sage than the ageless, and for a time ubiquitous, Alfred E. Neuman.

Don’t remember Mr. Neuman?

He is “…the fictitious mascot and cover boy of the American humor magazine Mad. The character’s distinct face, with his parted red hair, gap-tooth smile, freckles, protruding nose, and scrawny body…” (Wikipedia), quite literally became the face of Mad Magazine over the decades.  According to Wikipedia, Mad has published well over 550 issues and Alfred E. appeared in just about every single one.

He debuted in the magazine in the mid 1950’s, but the actual character, and his immortal tag line (“What, me worry?”, or earlier “What? Me worry?”) was already decades old. Although he was not Alfred at that point, his visage appeared in various iterations for products as diverse as painless dentistry and auto parts.  Apparently, he also did a cameo for then presidential candidate Franklin Roosevelt, but in this case he spouted “Sure, I’m for Roosevelt.”

According to Wiki, Mad changed his line only one time, and that to “Yes, me worry!” following the nuclear accident at Three Mile Island. ‘Nuff said about that.

Who does he look like?  Again, according to Wiki: “Neuman’s face was assembled, feature by feature, from parts of photographs of well-known politicos, including then-President Lyndon B. Johnson (left ear), Richard Nixon (nose), [former] Oregon Governor Mark Hatfield (eyes), and Ronald Reagan (hair). The gap in his teeth (which was otherwise the grin of Dwight D. Eisenhower) came from “The ‘Credibility Gap’ Created by Practically All Politicians”.

And what does the “E.” stand for?  One source says it stands for Enigma.  Alfred Enigma Neuman.  I’m not so sure about that but you go look it up.

Well, Mad Magazine wound up embedding itself deeply into my DNA, affecting and warping my sense of humor to this day.  Ah, the great ‘fold-ins’, Spy vs. Spy, Don Martin, “The lighter side of… [you name it]” and of course who can forget those immortal movie satires!  Ah the wackiness of my youth!

So, what does any of this have to do with anything?  Good question.

In my opinion it appears good ol’ Alfred E. was right:  why worry?  His kind of weird, gap-toothed smile radiated that “What? Me worry” nonchalance and guess what? Taking that attitude (Three Mile Island aside) is actually very healthy!

Jelena Kecmanovic, a columnist for the Washington Post, recently wrote an article titled “Don’t worry about it—really” (read it here). In it she references a “Gallup poll [which] found that 45% of Americans said they felt worried a lot — about work, relationships, children, health and money, among other things.”

Of course, that did not take into account those who worry less frequently, and that, it would seem, would then include all of us.

 

Kecmanovic writes: “Unrelenting worry accompanied by anxiety symptoms such as irritability, difficulty concentrating, muscle tension, fatigue and poor sleep, has been recognized as a condition called generalized anxiety disorder (GAD).”

Like many types of behavioral conditions, we can often fall into self-justification to support unhealthy habits.

“Chronic worriers often hold more positive beliefs about the usefulness of worry than the general population. They frequently view worry as motivating, helpful in preparing them for bad outcomes. They even see it as a positive personality trait…Some believe that worry shows to others how much they care. Two frequent manifestations of GAD — perfectionism and workaholism — often are rewarded in our culture” writes Kecmanovic.

Is chronic worry a positive trait?  Hardly.  Worrying tends to not only add stress to life, it can delay action, justify procrastination and lead to severe health problems.

And then there is this to add insult to injury: “A recent study found that 91% of worries held by people with GAD did not come true.”  Not only do we worry but we worry about things that don’t even exist!

I have a little trick for putting worrying in perspective.  I ask myself what I was worried about just two weeks ago. For the most part I can’t recall.   That should tell us all something.

Kecmanovic suggests seeking professional help if worry becomes chronic or a larger health concern.  She also suggests: “Don’t fret, fix it: One way to minimize catastrophizing is by distinguishing between worrying and problem-solving. Worrying is fretting about a bad situation; problem-solving is trying to remedy it.”

Of course, it helps, too, to focus on things we can control and what we can do about our worries just for this day. Our worries of yesterday are likely gone, and the future will have worries of its own.  Today, more than likely, is manageable.

Are you worried about your receivables?  Many of our clients are this time of year. Remember that we are coming into one of the best periods of the year to recover your bad debts. Let us worry about them for you.  When the boss comes in and asks about the state of your bad debts, just say “I turned them all over to A. Alliance: What, me worry?”

A. Alliance Collection Agency, Inc. is a full service, licensed accounts receivable management and debt collection agency providing highly effective, customized one on one management and recovery solutions for our business partners.  Founded in northern Illinois in 2005, we have been proudly improving the bottom-line on behalf of our business partners in and around Chicagoland for over 15 years.

Tags: Anxiety, Don't worry, Illinois Collection Agency |

US Economy Grows along with 2019 Holiday Spending

December 24, 2019 Lisa Brammer

I finally finished wrapping the last present and I’m happy to say I am officially ready for Christmas and have spent all I’m going to spend—that is, unless I have to make a last minute trip to the grocery store to pick up some whipped cream or other forgotten item.

According to the National Retail Federation annual report, consumers plan to spend a total of around $1050.00 (on average) for Christmas this year. That will amount to a total of about 730 billion dollars (!) up 4 percent from last year.

“The U.S. economy is continuing to grow and consumer spending is still the primary engine behind that growth,” NRF President and CEO Matthew Shay said.

Money spent will go towards presents ($659) non-gift holiday purchases like food and decorations ($227) and non-gift items for themselves ($162). I’d like to say I find the non-gift items for themselves category a bit ridiculous, but, in full disclosure, I did find a couple of nice things I bought for myself on Saturday. (It’s hard to pass up those kinds of deals, am I right?)

The NRF report also said that 91 percent of consumers are celebrating the winter holidays this year and 73 percent will use their smartphone or tablet to research purchases.  I fall safely within these statistics, but it also said that 19 percent started their shopping in or before September and 39 percent started before November. I’m an outlier in those two stats.  With Thanksgiving falling so late this year I did not start my shopping until December, and I felt a little rushed because of it.

I am a big online purchaser so when I read 56 percent will buy gifts online, I wasn’t surprised.  If anything, I would have thought that number would have been higher.  But 92 percent wanting to take advantage of free shipping was a no-brainer.

Thankfully, the holiday season isn’t just about stuff, stuff, and more stuff.  I am happy to report 68 percent of us are engaging in some kind of charitable endeavor. Yay!

We, here at A. Alliance, want to wish you a Merry Christmas and a healthy, happy and prosperous New Year.

 

A. Alliance Collection Agency, Inc. is a full service, licensed accounts receivable management and debt collection agency providing highly effective, customized one on one management and recovery solutions for our business partners.  Founded in northern Illinois in 2005, we have been proudly improving the bottom-line on behalf of our business partners in and around Chicagoland for over 14 years.

 

 

Tags: 2019 holiday spending, Midwest collection agency, US economy |

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